Whatever done is done
whatever said is said
we can't rewind it
human tend to have impulsive reactions
especially during conversations

What is right? what is wrong?
there's no right or wrong
just how people perceive things
how people take things

People can say why should I help you?
ya... 1st ask yourselfe
"why should someone help you?"
then, 2ndly ask yourself again the same question
"why you should help someone?"

However helping people is also helping ourselves
when people helping us they are also helping themselves
important thing is the balancing, the mutual benefits